August 2, 2009

Breathe And Let Go

Anything that takes place in our life , there are sure to be regrets. Whether they are moments of joy or tragedies , regrets come in all sizes. We always think we can do better in any way somehow. To prevent a disaster from happening or satisfying our own greed. ( already sufficient needs ) The fact is most of the time , there is nothing else that can be done when these circumstances arise. Regrets makes us aware that we are imperfect and life itself is imperfect. Tells us that fighting till the end has got to end at one point. That point is where we realize that nothing lasts forever.

Tragedies. We loathe it a lot. Always wondering how life would turn out to be in heaven. There is no doubt that the real life sucks. People die , they leave , and some of them hide. But if you dig down deep , you'll find a silver lining. Take in the good memories with you and make them let you see that there is something left in life worth remembering. That you had great days with people you love. We always learn something. Always.

Grief. It's like the ocean , deep , dark and all around us. The pain that arises from it is like a thief in the night. Selfish and heartless , taking away everything that was precious to you. At the end of the day , we're confused and feel senseless. We try to seek clarity in every way possible. Sometimes , trying to believe that something like that shouldn't had happen. We shouldn't act like that. Life is too short to be miserable. Have your own desired faith that things will turn out fine. It leads to hope. When you're having a hard time , remember that there are people around you. They love you. They want to go through this together with you. It's subtle to say that you're selfish if you don't share your ups and downs with these people. I think it's quite true.

Everyone is equally important. They may not mean anything to you but they could mean a lot to someone. A person will always be loved by somebody. He or she could be a son / daughter , father / mother , brother / sister , friend , lover , leader of a country , a classmate and even you yourself. There are people who don't even love themselves. Every person deserves to be loved and to be given a second chance in life. And when it comes , grab it.

" He who does not grieve , does not see. "


Translated by a friend of mine. =)

在我们的一生里,总有一些让我们遗憾的事。不管是喜或悲,大大小小的遗憾。我们总认为我们可以做的更好,在防止灾难或者满足自己的欲望。事实是,在这些灾难发生时,我们什么事都不能做。遗憾让我们发现人是不完美的,这也告诉我们奋斗到最后还是得结束,这让我们知道没有事是一辈子的。
悲剧。是让人憎恨的。常常想像在天堂是什么样的。不能质问的,人身就是那么恶劣。生老病死甚至逃避都是必竟之路。把美好的回忆永远放在心里的某一出好让你觉得人生还是美好的。在这些回忆里,我们一定能学到东西,一定。
悲痛,像一片深不见底的海。它夺走一切对你珍贵的事物。最总,我们彷徨无助。我们常常寻找事情的真相。人生短暂到不应许我们痛苦。相信自己的信念吧。它走向希望。当你遇到困难是,想想你并不是孤军奋战的,身边总有人支持你,爱你。可以这么说,是自私的如果你不分享。
全部人都是同等重要的。可能他们对你没有任何意义,不过要记得,别人可能很需要他们。一个人总会被某人所爱。他或她可能是一位儿子,女儿,父亲,母亲,哥哥妹妹,朋友,爱人,国家的领导者,同学甚至你自己。每个人都有权被爱和赐于第二次机会。当机会来了,就紧紧的把握吧。
“他,是不悲痛,眼不见”

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